What is the best way to deal with people with negativity?

A question was sent by a reader regarding how to deal with negativity....

There are a lot of people in this world who think that they are way superior to others.They voice out their own opinions even when they are NOT ASKED UPON, they give their own advice EVEN WHEN THEY ARE NOT PART OF THE CONVERSATION.. and they ridicule others WHEN THINGS DON'T GO THE WAY THEY LIKE.... and for some reason these people believe that they are GOD'S GIFT TO THE WORLD....and when we come across them, they just make us want to GRRRRR at them sometimes, huh? But the good soul we are , we just keep quiet most of the time...

Through experience, i have come across with a LOT OF NEGATIVE PEOPLE, or a PERSON with  A LOT OF NEGATIVITY... and I usually deal with it with a smile.... and think of happy thoughts... oh.. cut the crap... the first thing you want to do is get back to their face and tell them a thing or two or three.. but in the end after all that energy you spent giving them what you think, you're the one who gets hurt from the things they said and made you feel, you're the one who got tired from all the emotions and hurt that you had to blurt out.. but what about them... THEY WON'T EVEN CARE.and everything you said will just go through their thick cranium and soon forget about it.. and they will repeat the same thing again at another time, in another situation.. Negativity is from within.. it is how a person looks at the world.. and they want somebody else to look at things the way they look at them. dark, ugly and lonely, no trust, no friends, no joy...Negative people will always find something wrong with anything..heck they will find something wrong with the word wrong, if you get what I mean.. THe best thing to do is DON"T LET IT BOTHER YOU... we cannot please everybody, no matter what we do somebody will always be there to criticize you, blame you or find something wrong... IT'S OK.. because you know that deep down you did somethig RIGHT! Always consider what is best for the majority and not what makes NEGAMIND happy.. becuse they will never be happy..  Surround yourself with positive things.. do the things that make you happy ..sing, dance , cook, read a book..Spend time with your love ones... draw more positive energy from them.... always try to be overflowing with positive energy, think of happy thouhghts, how blessed you are,  so that negative enrgy bounces off  like being  protected  inside  a force field.... You cannot change them no matter how much you want to but you can change the way you feel when they direct their negativity to you ..

Always think " I AM TOO BLESSED TO BE STRESSED." SMILE.. SMILE.. SMILE... LIVE A LITTLE , LAGUH A LOT....




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